Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men, (Paperback)

from rivkat

Abuse is about entitlement, not anger. It results from misogynistic attitudes, not emotions. As a result, conventional therapy directed at understanding emotions won't work and may be counterproductive. Abusers sssentially always engage in calculation: they can always answer questions like, you h...

from Peggy

I haven't finished the book yet. But a lot of it is right on the head.

from Ivyzmama

I wish I'd bought this book first and not wasted hundreds of dollars on other books and over a thousand dollars on marriage counseling. This book answers every single question that a wife in a less-than-happy marriage could have. The book made me feel better, too.

from lauranav

What a great book! I think all women should read this book, even those not in a relationship with an abusive man. This book is written by a man who has worked with abusers for 15 years. He is writing to the partners (usually women) to help explain what abuse is, why someone who is abusive is diff...

from awesome

This book has been helping me a lot!!!! I know know I'm not crazy.